Quick answer
A dead air plant usually has no firm living tissue left. It may crumble when handled, fall apart from the center, smell sour from rot, or have a black mushy base. A plant that is curled, dull, or crispy at the tips may still be dehydrated rather than dead.
Signs the air plant may be dead
The most serious signs are a soft black base, leaves that slide out from the center, a sour smell, or tissue that collapses instead of bending. A plant that is fully brittle from the base through the leaves is also unlikely to recover.
Signs it may still be alive
If the base is firm, some leaves are flexible, or the center still holds together, the plant may be stressed rather than dead. Dehydrated air plants can look curled, dull, gray, or papery but still respond to careful hydration.
Dead vs dehydrated
Dehydration usually makes leaves curl inward, feel thin, and develop crispy tips while the base stays firm. Try a normal soak, shake out water, and dry the plant fully. If it firms up slightly over the next day or two, it was not dead.
Dead vs rot
Rot is different from dryness. A rotting plant often feels soft at the base, smells bad, darkens near the crown, or drops inner leaves. Do not rescue rot with repeated soaking. Remove it from damp displays, improve airflow, and keep it dry while you assess whether any firm tissue remains.
What to do first
Check the base before watering. If it is firm and the plant seems dry, soak once, dry completely, and watch for firmness. If the base is soft or black, stop watering and inspect for rot. Keep the plant separate from healthy plants while you decide.
When to stop trying
Stop trying when the plant has no firm base, no attached center, and no flexible living leaves. Compost or discard it, clean the display, and review what happened before placing another air plant in the same holder.
How to prevent the next loss
Most preventable losses come from missed watering followed by overcorrection, poor drying after soaking, harsh sun, sealed displays, or low light that keeps plants damp too long. Use bright indirect light, clean water, open airflow, and a display that lets you inspect the base.